Hey, did you just realize that you need a wedding list? Because after the initial “Hey Hey WE’RE GETTING ENGAGED” period, there is usually a rather brutal comed Don’t worry, we’ve got your back. Since we cannot literally step in and plan it for you, we will give you as many tools as possible. Step away from the Pinterest board “I’m crazy for awesome love”
Planning a wedding is not for the faint of heart. Honestly, if anyone knows, it’s us. We’ve been helping people like you navigate the process for over a decade. So, let’s just say this: You have this, and we have you.
WHAT KIND OF PLANNER ARE YOU?
I planned my budget for the wedding on a post-it note that I kept on my desk with a rough outline of a budget on it. While you definitely shouldn’t follow my lead (we have some really great tips on wedding budgeting), suffice it to say that I wasn’t a great guy-An organized planner. A wedding checklist with a hundred steps would have just pointed me out. (I actually signed up for one of them, fainted when I looked at it, and never checked it out again.) If you’re like me and can’t handle a million-piece checklist, Michelle Edgemont, a professional wedding designer based in Brookly
THE LOWEST WEDDING CHECKLIST
Before we get into a huge checklist, let’s take a step back and look at the whole picture. We have created this flowchart to help you understand the big picture of how wedding planning works. This guides you through the fact that you need to know where you are getting married first, so book your best sellers and you know … but it will help you keep your priorities clear when you are tempted, for example, to spend 5,500 euros on decoration before locking your room. Add it to your Pinterest board or place it on your refrigerator and follow the general steps in the overview.
OUR FREE PRINTABLE WEDDING PLANNING CHECKLIST
BUT. Sometimes what you need is a lot of details and a lot of options, and sometimes you want something that you can write about, check things and scribble everywhere, so that you don’t miss anything … even when things change a thousand times a minute. (Funny story about how I forgot that I had to pay the postage for our wedding invitations, hahahaha sob.) So finally, we have created a free printable complete wedding checklist for you. In fact, we’ve created an ebook with every wedding checklist you could need (think: 12 months, 6 months, the day of the elopement, and there’s even one more specific to #Recent times Couples, because while we’re on the other side, things are still … ahem… different).
We structured these checklists around the lightning-fast timeline of the elopement or the micro-wedding, as well as a twelve-month and six-month planning process-because the reality is that every wedding is different and therefore every planning process is different. Feel free to adjust these deadlines-stretch it out and do it quietly, or delete all the things that don’t bother you and do it in a few months. Likewise, remember that just because something is on the list, it doesn’t mean that you have to do it.